INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING

for moving beyond the self-development trap

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THE SELF-DEVELOPMENT TRAP

Does it feel like self-development just never ends?

Self-development was a godsend. You were stuck, stagnant, and things weren't working. Life was miserable, and you were unhappy with how things were going. Then you turned to self-development.

 

It might have started with a short YouTube video. And as you watched more videos, you began to dabble in podcasts. Then, you started reading self-development books.

You were driven. You were making changes in your life. Things were slowly looking up. And it felt great. But now, months and years into it, things started to feel a bit different. Your brain seems to be hypervigilant...scheduling, routine, optimizing, metrics...it just doesn't seem to stop. And you're exhausted.

You’re ready to take your fate in your own hands to achieve everything you dreamed of and more.

You've already built the necessary skills needed to succeed. Let's leverage all of that in our work together.

Our work together will hinge on finding a balance between your external skills and internal self. Self-development has got your external skills covered. What we will do together is to look internally, to find any areas of blockage that exist.

This means facing your own fears that you may have about yourself, such as "I'm not good enough," or "I'm not deserving." No matter how much success you achieve externally, if we don't accept and work on these fears, you will be stuck in an endless loop of chasing contentment.

 

Let’s work together to help you find that balance, and to use all your self-development skills to build a happy, sustainable lifestyle.

Stop chasing, and start living. Let's piece this puzzle together.

Why is it so easy to get stuck in the self-development trap?

How can I help you in your post self-development phase?

It is because self-development is very practical. You develop skills and techniques, which further motivates you. But to truly develop as a person, you also need to focus on overcoming internal conflicts, fears, and limiting beliefs.

I can help you identify your internal conflicts, fears, and limiting beliefs. We will find strategies to help you manage and resolve them. We'll find that missing ingredient, and integrate it with all the skills that you have already built through self-development.

What can happen if we work together to go beyond self-development?

You will feel that you have clarity of who you are and what you want. This clarity will help you utilize your skills with more confidence, and feeling less like a fraud. You will feel more comfortable with yourself, your goals, and your life visions.

Are you ready to have better relationships – with yourself, and others? 

Book your free phone consultation and let's talk about it.